Blog Layout

Understanding the Difference Between Respite Care and ABA Therapy for Children on the Autism Spectrum (and Why Both Are Important!)

"Raising a child on the autism spectrum can be a journey filled with both unique challenges and extraordinary rewards. For parents, balancing the daily responsibilities of caring for a child with autism with the need for occasional rest can be a delicate dance. Two key resources that many families turn to are respite care and ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis) therapy. However, while both respite and ABA can offer support, they have different purposes and benefits. Let’s take a closer look at how these services differ and what each can provide for you and your child."


Respite Care: A Crucial Break for Caregivers

Respite care is a service primarily intended to provide a temporary break for caregivers, giving parents a chance to recharge, focus on other tasks, or simply rest. Respite care providers typically focus on ensuring your child’s safety and comfort, allowing parents a much-needed break without worrying about their child’s well-being.


The main purpose of respite care is not to teach or guide your child through structured learning. Rather, it is a way for parents to step away momentarily, knowing their child is in safe hands. Respite care is not therapy or intervention; it is simply a short-term caregiving solution designed to support the family as a whole.


ABA Therapy: A Path Toward Skill Development and Independence

ABA therapy, by contrast, is a structured, goal-oriented approach aimed at helping children on the autism spectrum develop specific skills, reduce challenging behaviors, and ultimately gain greater independence. ABA is designed to support areas such as communication, social skills, behavior management, and daily living skills through individualized, evidence-based strategies. Over time, progress is carefully tracked, allowing therapists to modify and adapt programs to meet each child’s evolving needs.


The ultimate goal of ABA therapy is to help a child build the skills needed for success and eventual "graduation" from therapy. This approach focuses on long-term growth rather than short-term relief, with therapists/clincal team, parents, and the child all actively engaged in the journey.


Why ABA Therapy is Not Childcare

One common misconception is that ABA therapy serves as a form of childcare. Although it may provide parents with time to focus on other tasks, ABA is not simply about supervision. Every ABA session has targeted goals and a structure that reflects the child’s needs. ABA therapy also requires parents to be involved, especially through parent training and implementation of strategies outside of therapy sessions. Parental engagement is essential in achieving sustainable, meaningful change, as the child’s progress is supported not only during therapy but also in their everyday environment.


ABA therapists work closely with families to empower them with skills that reinforce the child’s learning outside the sessions. When parents actively participate and incorporate strategies at home, it increases the likelihood of the child’s continued success and growth.


Clinic-Based ABA: A Controlled Setting for Learning Key Skills

In a clinic-based ABA setting, children have access to a controlled environment where they can focus on skill-building without the distractions or complexities of a home setting. Clinic-based ABA often emphasizes social skills and communication, as children have opportunities to interact with therapists and potentially other children in a structured way. This controlled environment allows therapists to tailor interactions and gradually introduce situations that target specific skills.

Benefits of clinic-based ABA include:


  1. Enhanced Focus: In a clinic, children are in an environment designed specifically for learning. The absence of household distractions can help children concentrate on tasks and make it easier for therapists to work on specific goals.
  2. Structured Social Interaction: Clinics may offer opportunities for social skills training with peers in a controlled setting, allowing children to develop key communication skills in a safe, supportive environment.
  3. Consistent Environment for Skill-Building: Clinic settings allow therapists to control the environment, making it easier to manage factors like lighting, noise, and other variables that can impact behavior.


Clinic-based ABA can help children build a foundation of skills in a structured environment, which can later be transferred to more complex settings, like home or community spaces, where they may encounter different challenges.


Home-Based ABA: Supporting Generalization and Community Skills

Home-based ABA offers another dimension of support that is particularly valuable once a child has made foundational progress in a clinic setting. Bringing ABA into the home allows the therapist to help the child generalize the skills they’ve learned, applying them across different contexts within their everyday environment. The benefits of home-based ABA include:


  1. Promoting Independence in Familiar Settings: In-home ABA sessions allow the therapist to work on skills that are specific to the child’s daily life, from self-care routines to effective communication with family members.
  2. Generalization of Skills: Generalization is a critical component of effective learning, especially for children with autism. Home-based ABA helps ensure that the skills learned in the clinic transfer to other settings, making the skills truly functional.
  3. Community Integration: In-home ABA can also extend into the community, where therapists might work on skills like safely crossing the street, grocery shopping, or interacting with peers in public spaces. Community support builds a child’s confidence and prepares them for greater independence.
  4. Parent Involvement on a Granular Level: One of the most significant benefits of in-home ABA is that it allows for real-time parent participation. Parents can observe the therapy sessions, learn strategies from the therapist, and reinforce these strategies in everyday interactions. This involvement is crucial for helping children generalize skills, as parents can carry over ABA techniques throughout the week.


Choosing the Right Setting for Your Child

Both clinic-based and home-based ABA have unique advantages, and the decision often depends on your child’s specific needs and therapy goals. Some children may start in a clinic setting to build a foundation of skills, transitioning to home-based services as they grow. Others may benefit from a combination of both settings. Your ABA team can help guide you in making the right choice for your child’s individual needs.


Funding Options and Balancing Support with Rest

ABA therapy and respite care both support families of children on the autism spectrum, yet funding these services can be challenging. ABA therapy is generally covered by insurance due to its proven effectiveness. However, funding for respite care is less common knowledge. Some states and organizations offer grants or Medicaid waivers to help with respite costs, especially for families with children who have developmental disabilities. Exploring these options can make respite care more accessible, providing parents with valuable rest while ensuring their child’s safety.


Balancing ABA therapy and respite care can empower families. Respite care gives parents a chance to recharge, while ABA therapy invests in the child’s growth with active participation from both therapists and parents. Understanding these resources helps families make choices that benefit both the child and the family as a whole.


For further information, consider exploring these resources:



With the right knowledge and resources, you can provide the support your child needs while also ensuring you take the time to care for yourself. By making informed choices about services, you are setting the stage for a journey of growth, independence, and success for your child.


July 1, 2024
For many insurance plans, ongoing ABA services require authorization from insurance. This guide aims to demystify the process, providing a clear roadmap from the initial phone call to receiving ongoing services as it pertains to insurance. 
A woman works while a child jumps on a chair
June 30, 2024
This post discusses strategies and when programming should and shouldn't be followed. There is an emphasis placed on self-care for caregivers.
June 30, 2024
In the world of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA), a transformative shift has been unfolding—a shift toward neuro-affirming practices that are trauma-informed. This evolution is not just a trend; it’s a necessary response to the growing understanding of how past trauma impacts behaviors in the present, and respect for the autonomy and uniqueness of the children and families we're committed to serving.
June 30, 2024
"Over the past 60 years, ABA has evolved significantly, introducing numerous innovative methods to support the students and families we serve. From emotional regulation to managing motor loops, ABA plays a vital role in fostering your child's growth while celebrating and preserving the unique qualities that make them who they are."
Pregnant woman holding belly
June 30, 2024
This blog explores the science and current understanding surrounding antianxiety medication and autism risk.
July 28, 2023
Every parent or caregiver wants to make an informed decision for their child. When searching for more information about ABA services it can be daunting to read about all the positive and negative experiences those who have received services have had. Vilij ABA is a neurodiverse affirming practice and while we can't speak to how others practice ABA, we can share how we operate. ABA therapy has evolved over the last six decades and some misconceptions continue to linger. Here are our top 5 misconceptions of ABA.
child with autism practicing daily skills
June 17, 2023
The team at Vilij shares how to promote the development of daily living skills and self-management in children with autism.
June 17, 2023
Want to help your child with autism during the summer break? Our latest blog has strategies to promote growth during summer break.
June 14, 2023
Summer is in full swing and that often means changes to schedules and more opportunities to bond with your child and share new experiences with them. We’re opening our book of ideas for the various age groups we work with. As you’re deciding which activities are most appropriate consider reaching out to your care team to tailor activities to the needs of your child and family.
February 18, 2023
Disclaimer: Insurance plans vary widely. The following is presented for information purposes only. You and your family should contact your insurance provider before relying on any information for care. For questions about services and coverage by Vilij ABA please call 1.603.777.2800.
More Posts
Share by: